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Who is Polina Solda?

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This is the story of how a struggling-in-love woman attracted her soulmate & for the last 10 years, has been helping thousands of women recognize, attract & create a loving & lasting relationship with their perfect match too.

About Me and My Love Story

I haven’t just been mentoring, coaching and inspiring women to find the right man for the past 11 years, I’ve been testing everything I teach in my own life to ensure that what I give you works.

I’ve come a LONG way—from being abandoned by my father at birth and getting divorced to attracting, getting married to and creating a family with Paul, my dual partner of  12+ years.

With my unique, proprietary, proven method, this and MORE has become possible for women of all ages, from all walks of life and from all over the world.

In the fall of 2008, when I moved to New York City after a divorce, I started dating again.  As I spent countless hours online dating, messaging and dating men, I became more and more frustrated, disappointed and exhausted from all that effort with nothing to show for it.

I stayed stuck for months wondering what I was doing wrong.

On Christmas Eve in 2008, I finally had my breaking point after breaking up with a guy I was dating and spending my first Christmas in New York City alone.

That was when I had a breakthrough.

I realized that I was focusing on the wrong things.

I kept going after the same type of men, who weren’t attracted to and weren’t pursuing me.

I kept trying to be someone I wasn’t.

I kept trying to use universal dating advice that simply didn’t work for me. 

And, if you’ve been dating for any length of time, chances are you can relate to how I felt when I seemingly tried everything to find love yet was struggling and single. 

How much of that applies to you?

A mistake I didn’t even realize I was making was using universal “one-size-fits-all” dating advice that assumes all men are the same, look for the same things in a woman and, therefore, the same dating advice will work for anyone. But it simply is not true.

In fact, it’s  the biggest MYTH that keeps most women single.

The real issue is in the universal dating advice itself.

At that moment, I made a shift that changed everything for me—and it’s a shift that you too can make in an instant.

I started challenging everything I’d previously learned about love.

What if there was absolutely nothing “wrong” with me?

What if I didn’t need to try to be someone I wasn’t in order to be noticed, liked and approved by men?

What if the type of men I kept looking for weren’t right for me?

What if there was a new, different, effective way to find love?

It wasn’t long after I asked myself these questions that I met Paul, my dual partner.

We met in May 2009 and he proposed to me on our 6-month dating anniversary in December 2009.

On Christmas Eve in 2009, we were in love, engaged and celebrating with his wonderful family. And, a few days later we spent a romantic New Year's Eve in Paradise Island in the Bahamas. 

What a difference one year can make, and it can do the same for you!

Within a few short months, I quit my job at the United Nations and decided to build my new career around my passion for helping other women find love.

I became a wife, a mom and a certified coach—all in the same year!

My life has turned into a dream I could only imagine. 

And, despite how many times I’ve heard other women say that “there are no quality men out there,” “I’m too old to find love” and “I live in the wrong place,” I believed in love.  

That was 12 years ago. In the last decade, I’ve been doing for thousands of women what I did for myself, because I don’t want you to make the same mistakes, stay stuck and struggle as I did. 

Now there’s a NEW, DIFFERENT and MUCH BETTER way to find love.  

As a love mentor with 11 years of experience, I noticed a big, glaring gap between reality and the universal dating advice.  

This gap is caused by the 7 biggest dating MYTHS. 

These dating myths clutter the Internet and cause most women to stay single and keep struggling in dating. 

So, if you’ve tried to follow this kind of advice in the past and it didn’t work, don’t be ashamed. It’s NOT your fault.

The truth is there are different personality types of men. What works for one personality type of men will NOT work for another. And . . . not every personality type is compatible with you. 

When you learn how to “read” men’s personality types like open books, you’ll find the right man 10x faster with a small fraction of time and effort.

In 12+ years of being in a loving and committed relationship with Paul, my perfect match, and 10+ years of coaching women just like you, I can assure you that finding love is not a matter of luck, age, location or appearance. 

There’s a specific algorithm for finding the right man and getting into the right relationship for you. 

This best-kept secret is my PROVEN personality typing system that shows you  the fastest, easiest, and surest way to attract the RIGHT man for you.

It’s the best and only typing system in the world that enables you to accurately determine with precision the exact personality type of men who are most compatible for you (and why) so that you can create an easy, loving, stable and lasting relationship quickly and easily. 

So, if you’re really serious about meeting the right man, you have to make one of two choices right now: you can either keep doing what you’ve been doing and keep using old, ineffective universal dating advice with little to show for all your hard work, or you can finally learn and use this new, highly effective method to find the love you want and deserve. 

As you take the inspired action and register for my FREE masterclass, “How to Read Men Like Books,”  you’ll discover the proven method every woman needs to actually find the right man! Click here to register now!

See How Polina Has Helped Her Students:

“By working with Polina It helped me to BUILD my self-worth & to see the value in me as a person! Mentally I was healing & was provided with the tools to do so! 

About 7 months later I met this amazing man & I was emotionally ready for him & this relationship! I believe in order to meet & be with someone YOU as a person HAVE to be emotionally ready for it! I'm grateful for Polina & giving myself this gift of having a life coach & actively working everyday to be better which trickles down to everything & everyone in my life!


“When I came to Polina for coaching, I didn't believe I could find love at my age. Polina asked me what my goal for my love life was & I said, to meet my soulmate someday. She laughed & said I would meet him within a year. She was wrong. At the 6th month mark a man I met online proposed to me. I became a first-time bride at the age of 58 & we got married in a church. All I can say is WOW.


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